Thursday, May 19, 2011

my boyfriend told me to get a job at a strip club?

we've been together for a long time now. well i got laid off in january and have been busting my *** to find a new job. i used to work in the dental field as an administrative assistant/insurance specialist and well, there aren't any jobs in sc. my boyfriend seems to think that i haven't tried to get a job. i guess he doesn't remember when he got fired last may and didn't find another job until september. we moved in december to a new place, which is in my name, utilities, everything is in my name. he has horrible credit and couldn't get approved. i've been through lots with him, from drug addictions, to him cheating, to him accusing me of cheating, to physical confrontations between us. well he called me today and said he found me a job. AT A STRIP CLUB!!! i asked him if he was serious...he told me "i don't play around when it comes to money"...now i took care of him for a long time last year, and two months have gone by and he wants me to take off my clothes for money. i just really need some advice? i dont know how to respond to it. it really hurts my feelings that he wants me to do that.
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Tell him maybe he should look into auditioning for a male review if he thinks this is such a great job. It sounds like this guy has put you through hell and you've stood by him, and that sounds like it has really become a one-sided relationship. You stood by him cheating, hitting you, being an addict and all, yet instead of being grateful for your continued support, he's trying to play big pimpin'. DUMP THIS LOSER AND RUN LIKE HELL! His attempt at finding you a new job shows just how little he thinks of you. It's one thing if this is a decision you came to own your own, but the fact that he is pushing you towards something that can be potentially emotionally damaging (and degrading) to you speaks volumes about where his priorities are - and you're not it, hon. Get away from this guy and don't let him push you into something you would be uncomfortable or ashamed of. If you give in to his little idea, you will regret it. Don't give him this kind of power over you.
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