My husband and I have been together for 6 years. Over the entire course of those 6 years, he has not been to the dentist once. He has poor dental hygiene - he does not floss, use mouthwash, he ALWAYS has bad breath, only brushes his teeth once a day, etc. When we have relations, if he doesn't brush his teeth, I won't kiss him. I know that sounds selfish and petty on my behalf, but if you would smell his breath, you wouldn't make out with him either! I love my husband with all of my heart, but I cannot stand his bad breath. You would think that he would get the hint to take better care of his mouth after I nag him and bug him about his bad hygiene, but he doesn't. He won't let me make a dentist appointment for him because I know he's afraid he'll have cavities and he his self-conscious of his teeth - he thinks his bottom teeth are crooked. So, I guess my question is, do any of your have any suggestions for me as to what I can try next? I can't stand much more bad breath!
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Oral hygiene isn't just about looks and smells--it can affect a person's overall health. There was a boy who made the news recently when bacteria from a tooth abscess spread to his brain and he DIED. Also, studies link poor oral hygiene with stroke and heart disease. Tell your husband you love him, you want to kiss him, and you want him to be healthy and around for a long time to come. Tell him that dentists have seen it all--your husband is far from being the only one who avoids the chair. He might feel more comfortable if he is able to meet with the dentist for reassurance before making the appointment for an exam. Dentists are familiar with patients like your husband, and they can be supportive and non-judgmental.
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