I am fifteen, and pregnant. I went out with the guy for like a year and a half, so it's not like I was one of those slutty girls that sleeps with every girl she dates. & I am handling the situation pretty well [so my family says], I am taking good care of myself and doing everything that will give my baby the best life he can have. And yes, I am staying in school. I am home schooled, and I am planning on getting my diploma & becoming a dental hygienist. I am not proud of what I've done, but people make mistakes, & there's really nothing I can do about it except deal with the situation. So why do some people judge me so harshly, and make smart remarks all the time? Why can I not go into the Wal-Mart without getting a billion nasty looks? What can I do to make people stop treating me so horribly?
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Well from your screen name I am going to assume you already have one child or have already named this one either way you can not stop the nasty looks. It does not matter that you have been with this guy a year and a half or one day, the point is you are 15 and pregnant. I will applaud your effort to make a life for yourself and your child and that fact that you have plans for the future, but the bottom line is that you got pregnant at 15. There is an epidemic of children (and yes you are a child) having children and it seems to be getting worse as time goes on, and you are contributing to it. I wish you all the best and congratulate you on your baby but the looks are something you are going to have to deal with. Right now and I know this is something you may not be ready to hear, you can no longer worry about what other people think, from this day until the day you die your only concern will be for that baby, so don't worry about the looks there is nothing you can do about them. =) Good luck
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